It is becoming increasingly common for people to use dating apps. In fact, in 2020, it was estimated that there were over 44 million users of dating apps in the United States alone, and this number has grown significantly since then.
There are a variety of reasons why someone may choose to use dating apps. For some, it can be a convenient way to find compatible people who may be interested in dating.
For others, it can be a great way to meet new friends or even form meaningful relationships with someone special.
But is it weird to use dating apps? The answer depends on a couple of things, and I will explain in detail, so keep reading to find out more;
Using Dating Apps Will Be Weird…
1. If You’re Talking To Someone
If you’ve been seriously talking to someone, such as a long-term partner or someone who you’ve been seeing for a while, then it’s definitely weird to be on dating apps, especially if they don’t know about it.
This could be an indication that you are not fully committed to the process of getting to know the other person.
2. If You’re Already in a Relationship
If you’re already in a relationship, then it’s definitely weird to be on dating apps.
It may be an indication that you are not 100% happy and satisfied with the relationship, or it could signal something more sinister.
But of course, if your relationship is open and your partner knows about it, then it could be less weird.
3. If You’re Paying Too Much For It
If you’re paying too much money for a dating app subscription, this can be very weird for most people.
To most people, it could be interpreted as being desperate or even a little bit sad. I’m not a believer in this particular point because I’m a subscriber of doing whatever makes you happy as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone.
4. If You’ve Already Asked them out or Proposed
If you’ve already proposed to someone or asked them out, it could be seen as odd if you’re still on dating apps. This is usually a huge red flag for most people.
There are some exceptions if you found the person you asked out on a dating app relatively recently. But if it’s been a few months, then people would consider it weird.
5. You’re In A Serious Relationship Or Married
If you’re already in a serious relationship, it might be a good idea to keep your dating life off of apps. Even if you’re tempted to try them out, it could lead to complications if your partner finds out.
It’s important to keep trust alive in any relationship, and using dating apps can definitely destroy that.
What Impression Do People Have of People On Dating Apps?
In general, people react differently when they hear or see that someone is using a dating app. Some will think nothing of it, while others may be more judgmental.
Here are some of the common impressions people have of someone who is using dating apps:
- You’re Open For Dating:
People might think that you are open to dating and willing to meet new people.
- You’re Desperate:
Others may mistake your use of dating apps as an indication of desperation, especially if you’ve been going on for too long.
- You’re Not Satisfied In Your Relationship:
If you’re already in a relationship and still using dating apps, then people might think that you’re not satisfied with your current relationship.
- You Don’t Want to Commit:
On the flip side, if you’ve been on a dating app for too long without committing to anyone, some may think that you have commitment issues.
